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Unlocking the Bond |
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"Buddy Parenting" Have you tried it at home,well surely it would change the way you bonded with your kid,those small portions of chocolaty delights surely has a key to better childhood.It has changed the way of parenting.
We humans are always incorporating new things to reform ideas, revamp ideologies, raise our social behavior, edit our family values and elevate our bond with our offspring’s.When I was growing up, I would hesitate on many things or would not have the courage to converse on anything and everything with my parents that kindled me or flared me. I kept it within me. Today as a parent, I go back memory lane, I still desire to correct many false notions or opinions which was carved in my innocent mind. An idea or notion when talked about makes a lot of difference. Shaping a child’s psychology, enabling a wider platform. May be I would have been guided in a better way; I would not have ventured into the erroneous zones, or might be I would not have cried for a best friend.
Buddy Parenting is the new concept.This new concept is unlocking the conventional stereotypes of parenting, unfolding new dimensions-
- Parenting is tricky game-Play it well but "play"
- Positive tone echoing an assertive body language is the real essence of the game.
- Playing the game not as a referee but as an active participant,enjoying every bump on the roller coaster named "Childhood " is the "Mantra"
- Balancing the wheel of "Moral principles" with child psychology and steering "life skills" in the best possible direction.
Buddy Parenting-The Chat Path |
With time concepts are evolving. I have invested extra effort to become "Buddy Parent" with my 9 year old daughter. Right from the time she was born we decided as parents we would instill all the right virtues in her but as an individual she would have her own entity. Being born in our family and taking up our genes should not block her mental and intellectual freedom. It should not be overshadowed or nurtured in our own standardized version of philosophy or our way of interpretation. As of now we have progressed in our new initiative. We term it as “Bonding Buddies”. Its more about openness, liberated views, unchained thoughts, unroped ideas and unfettered creativity.
"Khushi ke pal" is sealed in our bond.
It has opened many locks through the following ways- Untangle
- Enlighten
- Support
- Clarify
- Discuss
Ears to her Ideas |